Because I Worth It !

 

LADIES, KNOW YOUR WORTH :)

I enter university life as a married young woman. 

20 years back, married young and went to university to further your studies were the rarest thing ever happened. Perhaps I am among the tiniest minority of girls who are married and pursue my dreams to be who I desire to be 🥰.

And what made me become the rare girl? 

AMBITION. 

Yes, it is my ambition, my passionate to be a graduate students. I want to go to university fullstop

At that time, not many people (girls) were able to pursue their tertiary education due to financial problems (thanks PTPTN for the loan), lack of parent awareness (daughter shouldn't study high because end up they're be at the kitchen T_T) and of course you have to score in SPM STPM etc .

But all of those things are just a basic measurement to achieve my ambition. I won't succeed without determination, high morals, my family duas' and Allah S.W.T. wills. 

The best lesson to keep me sane and never lose hope to gain my success is I experience a tough life. So I see education is a solely key to escape the struggle. Poverty shouldn't be heritage. I have to build my own empire 💪🏻 no matter what even I marry anak orang kaya hehehe.

Later, I myself experienced divorce. The thing that makes me feel blessed is I never quit. I never quit my study even though I married young (at my 20) so my future still had a good progress even though I am a young single parent (at the time I'm just 24).

I complied my son's medical treatment due to AB-O prolonged jaundice for four years. Alone. That the biggest achievement ever even though I'll never ever get my dream job.

I never regret the life that Allah S.W.T. grands me because this life gives me lots of lessons, giving me an opportunity to be a mother, become a better person day after day, being a good Muslim.

Today, we heard we read people's (marriage) experiences. Good men are everywhere but sometimes they're not the ones for us. 

So ladies, 

Love yourself, love your family (parents, siblings, children), love your future and the rest just let Allah S.W.T. determine what is the good for us.

I do feel sad to hear some of my colleagues and family members gave up their life and kept their dreams for good to be a successful housewife and mother but the ending wasn't so bright. At the gold ages, they have to restart their life from zero, with no (or lack of) financial support, zero technology appliances etc... 

May Allah S.W.T. grant you all blessing and ease your life ❤️.